tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post2096692316063069367..comments2023-10-11T00:42:22.678+08:00Comments on It's all about the spin...: Frustration, irritation and disgustrinnahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13233586539656719434noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-45798543660773946642008-05-23T14:25:00.000+08:002008-05-23T14:25:00.000+08:00giddy tigress: *plasters on a grin reminiscent of ...<B>giddy tigress:</B> *plasters on a grin reminiscent of the Joker in Batman* Liddat can ah? LOL. Yeah, I also dunno how his gf can stand him, but maybe he's a different person with her? I shall continue to observe and see if he is insecure or not...<BR/><BR/><B>doreen:</B> Ahahaha... yeah, he thinks it's funny to be like this. I wish I had the guts to tell him off! Anyone know where I can buy some guts?<BR/><BR/><B>adino:</B> How come people just put up with attitudes like that nowadays? The thing is, I hang out with the other colleagues and they invite this fella along leh... how to avoid and pretend he doesn't exist?<BR/><BR/><B>rainbow angeles:</B> Trying. very. hard. to. ignore. him.<BR/><BR/><B>l b:</B> Wakakakaka! Eh, he wears tinted lipbalm and colored nail polish. Does that count? ROTFL...<BR/><BR/><B>mistipurple:</B> I have lots of practice in doing deep breathing exercises to keep from feeling all angsty inside. *grin*<BR/><BR/><B>adrian:</B> Yeah, I'm serious about the tattoo thingy. I find it weird, actually.<BR/><BR/><B>collin:</B> *sings along with collin ala Julie Andrews*<BR/><BR/><B>simon:</B> How I wish I could! *thinking about the consequences* Sometimes don't you just want to tell clients to "beat it"? LOL.<BR/><BR/><B>kenny mah:</B> Hehehe... I like the lobotomy part. *wicked grin* I recognize and I accept his behaviour for who he is, but do wish that he would go away and let me be... so yeah, basically my concept is he can be anything he chooses to be but just don't kacau me. Er, not that clear, hor?<BR/><BR/><B>eastcoastlife:</B> I not as garang as you leh... yaloh. He's not paying my salary.<BR/><BR/><B>leon:</B> No wise words of wisdom to add? Kekeke.<BR/><BR/><B>l b:</B> Champions again! Hooray! *does a lap of victory with lb*<BR/><BR/><B>keeyit:</B> The strangest thing is, this fella can work very well and he doesn't behave like this at all when it comes to work matters... but in his personal life... I dunno what to say.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-2405865087104428072008-05-22T07:24:00.000+08:002008-05-22T07:24:00.000+08:00I face the similar cases too.. Ai.. what to do, I ...I face the similar cases too.. Ai.. what to do, I just ignore them lol.. concentrate to my work... <BR/><BR/>We cant change people but we can change our attitude or feeling towards them.. Just dun make ourselves angry... cheersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-70022864865179119342008-05-22T07:00:00.000+08:002008-05-22T07:00:00.000+08:00We are the Champions - my friends And we'll keep o...We are the Champions - my friends <BR/>And we'll keep on fighting - till the end - <BR/>We are the Champions - <BR/>We are the Champions <BR/>No time for losers <BR/>'Cause we are the Champions - of Europe -L Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00747649766642650870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-7926159327780640142008-05-19T10:26:00.000+08:002008-05-19T10:26:00.000+08:00Listen to Adino...he is the wisest in doing this h...Listen to Adino...he is the wisest in doing this heheheAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-29935390094408890582008-05-17T14:54:00.000+08:002008-05-17T14:54:00.000+08:00I'll grab his hair and bang his head on the table ...I'll grab his hair and bang his head on the table or walls. kakaka..... so violent. I also cannot tahan this type of people. I would tell him off or be real nasty to him. I don't give face to such people. <BR/><BR/>Since you have to work with him, just ignore him. He's not paying you salary.eastcoastlifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13578276762751929226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-38094465570753129162008-05-16T13:58:00.000+08:002008-05-16T13:58:00.000+08:00P.S. Correction: "I may DISagree with his behaviou...P.S. Correction: "I may DISagree with his behaviour..."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-21083506237164148432008-05-16T13:57:00.000+08:002008-05-16T13:57:00.000+08:00Here's an idea (which may not go down all too well...Here's an idea (which may not go down all too well, but still): Instead of ignoring HIM, instead of getting frustrated at HIM, instead of wasting your valuable time and energy thinking about HIM, why not focus on yourself?<BR/><BR/>On YOU.<BR/><BR/>You matter more, don't you? So why not focus on you. This doesn't solve the problem, one might say. Hold on. Focus on YOU also means focusing on why YOU are so frustrated with him. He's the way he is; perhaps nothing/no one can change that (short of a lobotomy).<BR/><BR/>But YOU, but WE, we can change our reaction to people like him.<BR/><BR/>I know it sounds like mumbo-jumbo, but I do the same thing in my office whenever I get really frustrated with my colleagues. At the end of the day, I realised it's how I want to see things. I may agree with his behaviour, but I accept that is how he is. I may inform him that I don't appreciate such behaviour but I won't let his subsequent actions affect me either.<BR/><BR/>Or I'll try to lah. Easier said than done. But sikit-sikit can be done lah. And that's enough to put a smile on your face, maybe? :)<BR/><BR/>Hope you have a great weekend!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-41573838373874906372008-05-15T23:05:00.000+08:002008-05-15T23:05:00.000+08:00just tell him off, or else he'll keep doing it...i...just tell him off, or else he'll keep doing it...<BR/><BR/>i had a bad day today, this client of ours was being super arrogant just to get us to do something free for him. well, ruined my day that's for sure...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-7729464110733553582008-05-15T10:24:00.000+08:002008-05-15T10:24:00.000+08:00harro! dun let this kind of person spoil your day....harro! dun let this kind of person spoil your day. <BR/><BR/>try to "simply remember your favourite things, and then you will feel al...right (sing song).." ;-DArgentinadoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03574516055154022234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-6862810455295002432008-05-14T22:05:00.000+08:002008-05-14T22:05:00.000+08:00You're serious about the tattoo of his mom's face ...You're serious about the tattoo of his mom's face on his leg?? Awww.. how sweet. :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-52933215566826170122008-05-14T21:32:00.000+08:002008-05-14T21:32:00.000+08:00hard to work or even breathe eh?you have my sympat...hard to work or even breathe eh?<BR/>you have my sympathy. he is your colleague.<BR/>try to er.. offer up to HIM each time he annoys you? lol. i can think of no better way to put this suffering to better use.mistipurplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02483567261600728148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-46311579888116370242008-05-14T19:16:00.000+08:002008-05-14T19:16:00.000+08:00I bet he wears a bra and panties and stockings.. O...I bet he wears a bra and panties and stockings.. <BR/><BR/>Ooops, I am so mean! *slaps myself*<BR/>No, I don't want to be like him at all. I shall not be so mean. And I will not wear a bra, or panties, or even stockings!!L Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00747649766642650870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-33494971441136808602008-05-14T18:30:00.000+08:002008-05-14T18:30:00.000+08:00i also believe that he's got problem with insecuri...i also believe that he's got problem with insecurity.. just ignore him :)rainbow angeleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10769985161601781229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-4878061342264055282008-05-14T15:29:00.000+08:002008-05-14T15:29:00.000+08:00I can guarantee that some of your other colleagues...I can guarantee that some of your other colleagues will feel exactly the same way, but he's probably too loud or influential for them to voice up. <BR/><BR/>Just make friends with other colleagues and avoid him. Pretend he doesn't exist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-1027948417598253632008-05-14T15:14:00.000+08:002008-05-14T15:14:00.000+08:00he is just like a b*tch (excuse my language), bitc...he is just like a b*tch (excuse my language), bitching around is his hobby I think. I really hate people like this. Next time just tell him off in front of many people.Doreenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14182987314675235328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38096697.post-17484556656875200232008-05-14T14:17:00.000+08:002008-05-14T14:17:00.000+08:00Short of just ignoring him or even better, telling...Short of just ignoring him or even better, telling him off, just grin and bear it. No point getting all worked up with a jerk like that.<BR/>I still can't understand how his girlfriend would wanna be with him.<BR/><BR/>But all that being said, I read that people like these are actually really insecure on the inside. And he is probably just using all these antics to cover up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com